The funny thing about us man is we like to complain. We
complain so much we don't even realize we're complaining. We never take the
time to realize that what we have now is enough for that moment and that life
is a journey. Nothing comes wholly packed and completed in a package.
Everything comes in stages and as they do, we should learn to embrace it. We
should learn to take it as it is here and now.
I notice that we rely so much on our expectations that we
forget about our reality. We should live by the actualization of experiencing
the now and not so much focus on the ‘what ifs’. We forget that our focus on
the present sets the path for later. That's it's our current ‘being’ that is important
and is what should always matter. It is the portrayal of our expectations that fill
up the mind and bring forth worry. The same way it’s the focuses of others that
fill our mind with envy instead of us fully embracing ourselves to be better
beings.
Sometimes
we don’t even know when chances knocks on our door because we are so busy
concentrating on other things that we forget to live in the present. Sometimes
we’re uncomfortable with the idea of being uncomfortable, even though the only
way to get comfortable is by being uncomfortable. Remember that chance doesn’t
wait on anyone and chance doesn’t favor anyone. It’s up to you to take it when it’s
there, if not create the chances for yourself, you are the one who calls the
shots.
Sometimes we miss our chances because we're so busy
overlooking them and surpassing opportunity, with the hopes that another will
come our way. We don’t realize that it could possibly be the only shot we get.
Just like life is a one shot streak, we don’t get another shot at living.
Therefore,
don’t waste chances when they come. Opportunity knocks ones at every man’s
door, it’s up to you to let it in when it does and make the most of it. If you
blow it, that’s it you’re done! Done? No, no one really likes to think of the
word done or anything worth completion, even when it comes to life and it
coming to an end. What do you do when you blow your chance? Do you spend the
rest of your life looking back and regretting it? No you shouldn’t, because
then you consume your time with worry, pity and regret. Move on and focus on the now. Maybe chance won’t
come again, maybe it will. The truth is no one knows, only God does. If
anything, you need to depend on Him more than anyone. Let it be that if you
ever get another chance, you will be ready, you will be smatter, and you will take
the chance but as of now, never let it slip away.
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